I can't say I'm in the same boat, but if I'm home and not working, I can't help myself and I either get baked or get a solid buzz while drinking, so I have a problem with being sober.
Otherwise, I'd say if you start your day with a hard drink, do hard drinks for lunch, and you pass out drunk as fuck when you end the day, then you've probably got a problem. All day everyday is wild for alcohol, remember it's a poison. Everything with moderation and you should be fine. I tend to drink around twice a week when I've got bud at home, but that's just me
Good luck with your addiction. First step is admitting you have one