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Cheating on someone....
#1
If you catch someone cheating in like poker or a relationship.  What is the best way to deal with it?



#2
Break up with them, that's all you want. You can't fix someone who's once cheated, you won't know if they will cheat again. The trust is forever gone.



#3
thanks alot, its good to hear someone else verbalize it!



#4
Yeah cut your losses and move on ?



#5
Don't ever let someone tell you they will change, fuck that noise, have self respect.



#6
Move straight forward. Never look back.



#7
Bring it up and see if it's something you can move on from.



#8
>Poker
The traditional solution for this is to pull out your big iron and deal with the perpetrator. Not much has changed in the last 140-150 years, except in the Vegas casinos, where the casino bosses will take you to a back room, and beat the shit out of you.

>Relationship
Generally, break up with them, and don't look back. Women are less faithful than us men, despite what the media says. This is also why we should be EXTREMELY SLOW to get married, if at all.

>If she cheats on you once
You can choose to stay with her, because people do fuck up. Don't trust that she'll cut contacts with whatever helped her fuck up, but do verify it. This may require some extra effort on your part, like moving the two of you away or something. If it's a genuine fuck up, then she'll go out of her way to prove that she's being loyal.

>If you believe that you are supposed to stay with her after two cheating incidents
Then you will first receive divinely-given information telling you to do so, and then another source or two confirming this. Then you get to do some kind of monitoring of her, and she should have restricted freedom, as well as verify that she has cut ties with whatever that helped her fuck up. This kind of fuck up usually has to do with some kind of emotional problem or trauma that you were not previously aware of. She'll eventually re-earn your trust. But she'll also get to live with the idea that she permanently damanged your relationship. And in the next life, she'll find out that you stayed with her because of loyalty to a higher cause, not love for her. THIS IS RARE TODAY.

>Orders received to stay with someone no matter how many cheating incidents have occurred
There is DAMN NEAR INFINITY RARE. You will literally be told to stay by divinely-given information, and it will be confirmed via dreams, and several other divine appolntments. There are a literal handful of people on earth that are required to stay with such a partner, but that means there is something way greater going on that depends on such a dedication. This is a difficult path, and few have ever walked it in all of humanity's history. But it means that the partner is important and will need some emotional help to do what they were appointed to do in this life. Lots of people love stupid shit in this life, and it falls onto a very few to help certain important ones to get their job done, despite them loving stupid shit. Again, this is DAMN NEAR INFINITY RARE, and I see literally zero people on this board (from my POV) that are on this path.



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#9
Thank you for the feedback!!! This is very much appreciated



#10
>Thank you for the feedback!!! This is very much appreciated
You're most welcome, OP.

Just remember: the big thing to look for on a girl that's cheated on you is ATTITUDE. Is she remorseful? Is she telling you to move on from it? Is she stuck in her phone a minute or two after saying "sorry"? Is she crying? Does she insult you or make excuses? Does she get violent? Does she threaten to call the cops? Is she firing off words like a machine gun? Does she push you away sexually? There are a million different reactions and you have to be able to read them.

When examining her (because that's what it really is), you must remain EMOTIONALLY NETURAL, and control your emotions at all times. Don't let any of it get to you. Your emotional release must be done in private and away from her, so that you can be neutral in front of her. Watch her actions, both when you confront her, and afterward. Women use fake tears to get what they want, and get really angry (to the point of uncontrollability) when you call them out for their fake tears, which they can turn on and off in a second. They'll try and flirt with you, or touch you, to elicit sympathy. Women are excellent actors because they're trained to lie for most of their lives, because they are trained to lie to get whatever they want. "Female privilege" as we'd call it. YOU MUST BE ON YOUR GUARD!

That's what I forgot to add. Hope this helps.



#11
The term cheating is a misnomer. You committed to an exclusive relationship.

If one person engages in sex or whatever else, that breaks the commitment. So clearly (2) things:

(1) They cannot be trusted to be responsible
(2) They decided that their short-term needs are more important than your relationship.

Really makes you think.



#12
Yes it does, that is a good way to look at it.



#13
Don’t waste time with anyone that has a cheating background