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Have you ever been in a long distanced relationship
#1
Was talking to a girl about this the other day, she told me theyve been seeing each other for almosy three years now, but since theyre young they can only see each other about 5 times a year, and it got me thinking.

Personally, I don't think I could commit to an LDR if they were outside of my country or if we werent serious beforehand, what about you?



#2
LDR is pretty rough I don't see it really working out unless theres a lot of relationship to start off with.



#3
How do I get my contributor level up



#4
Doesn't work. tried for 6 months. Me in Cali and she in Midwest.
Hours and hours on skype, all lovely dovely.
But once a local hick found her interesting, she hop into his dick and it was over.

At least she was honest about it.



#5
idk, I havent been a in LDR but I think if I knew the person before they moved or actually have seen them IRL not on a call it would fine



#6
Not a good idea



#7
yeah, it was not sustainable though...



#8
5 times a year is an insanely low amount. I am not the needy type, but I do need more than 5 times year. Pretty sure I ain't the only one.



#9
LDR is not for everyone. It's very tough and for the committed type. You've got to be really trusting.



#10
It's difficult, but if it's one that ends up being permanently in person then it's good



#11
Yep. I did it 4 years ago and failed (only lasted for 8 months) and now I'm doing it again with the new me and a new girl. Really hope to last forever since I'm looking for a serious relationship with her.



#12
All of my let's have failed. The only thing that kept it alive more than couple months with each was sexting. But I found the freakier they are, the more likely they are doing that stuff with someone else too.



#13
It's really tough. You both have to be really committed to it and put in a lot of energy. And then if you manage to make it through...you need to have a plan to transition into non-LDR. That's been the tough part for me I think.

Most don't make it realistically...but there are some success stories and they're always sweet.



#14
Lmao long distance relationships are all i’ve had, albeit not very far, 15 minutes normally and 45 minutes for my current one. I’m in a duel credit program with a bunch of lame girls that are either stuck up smart people or aren’t looking to date. And so i’ve mostly been dating girls from a school where i’ve made a lot of other friends from. I’ve also dated two people who I knew from when I was younger because we’d meet again on instagram.