My partner doesn’t watch porn and she has barely masturbated in her life, which makes it harder to explain why I would want to watch it. After being caught, I decided to come clean, going as far as telling her porn stars I like, when I’d watch it, how many times a week, and that I check out good looking women on occasion in real life and on Instagram. She has told me she feels deeply hurt by me keeping this secret from her all this time.