[lucy245]

Opinions on BDSM?

[kjvan]

Not my cup of tea but I can see BDSM as a way for people to take their sex life to the next level when it starts getting bland.

[blackmeritum]

communication is key

[vappology]

Its only fetish

[yunghabi]

50 shades stuff is pretty hot imo.

[Reticse]

Hmm well I'm not sure if this is a serious question, but I'll do my best to answer. I'll start by saying that yes I am into BDSM and I identify as a submissive male. At the same time, I've never had anyone as a girlfriend or even less as a dominatrix, like the vast majority of people, so I'm not sure if it's 100% accurate. But what you'll find is that BDSM is different to how it's depicted in movies with leather and whips and all, mostly because it's used as the butt of a joke. And I get it, people don't understand it and it's different so people make fun of it. I myself struggled for a while thinking how it wasn't manly to be a submissive male, especially with all the preconceptions of submissiveness meaning you're weak. The thing is BDSM doesn't need to involve whips or leather, it's about trusting someone to care for you. It's about someone wanting you enough to want to tie you up or wanting to care for someone else in that way, also you'll hear it everywhere in the BDSM community, but it's about being safe, consensual and sane. So I guess my longwinded response is yes I like it and I think I liked it my entire life I just never knew what it was called, also I think BDSM shares a lot in common with just vanilla stuff, wanting to feel needed and such.

[Ww3lmao]

Frankly I enjoy BDSM cus of the whole domination aspect, its gratifying that someone would want to be your sub cus you know you can sexually do anything you want to them and they won't leave.

[BurntSkeleton]

It can be very creative and comfortable. Good variants include many ways to tie up boobs

[dd619]

extremely great if done right