[tiktokjac lop]

I’ve been in love with this girl for many years. Pretty much all of my college years. 

In college we were on and off between each other’s relationships. Eventually she got a long term bf. 

Recently when we’re at group events where we drink, she’s been getting flirty. She’s talked to me about how she’s not happy in her current relationship. 

I feel like I want to swoop in but it’s so wrong. 

What do I do!

[olichan12]

>I’ve been in love with this girl for many years. Pretty much all of my college years.
Happens to a lot of us.

>In college we were on and off between each other’s relationships. Eventually she got a long term bf.
Sounds like she would "date" you so she would always approach whoever she wanted from a position of strength. Women do this all the time. It means she never loved you.

>Recently when we’re at group events where we drink, she’s been getting flirty. She’s talked to me about how she’s not happy in her current relationship.
She wants a rebound "boyfriend" (you) so that she can break up with the current bf. She'll use you for a while until she finds someone new, then she'll break up with you. She doesn't love you, she just uses you. And she knows you love her, so she can manipulate you however she wants.

And then... get over her privately. She uses your love for her against you. Once you're over her, you'll be able to find a better gf than one. And hopefully, she'll see the two of you happy (and see that this girl is hotter than her), which will send her over the edge with jealousy.

I feel like I want to swoop in but it’s so wrong.
Nope. Don't do it. Tell her no. If you want to make a point, wait for her to break up with her current bf, before you tell her no. And if she presses for details, just tell her that you're really happy or content the way things are. No need to lie to her about having a gf.

[TheLesser]

Oliphant has some high quality advice. She will continue stringing you along as a fall back plan as long as you let her. I guarantee she'll stop being friendly at all the minute you start seeing someone else.

I've been in the same position. Get over her.

[tiktokjac lop]

Damn that’s some solid ass advice. I like the way you think lol 
I think I’ll fuck her and then drop her just to make a point.

[thundereder9t8y]

You cannot save someone that doesn't want to be saved. Is it worth the trouble? The expenses? The headaches? Do you not are about your own mental health?

[Jzzzf]

Follow your heart if you think she's the one.

[tiktokjac lop]

Those are both good points, I’ll have to really do some thinkin. But I know for sure I’m gonna fuck her again because every time we do it’s like fireworks

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Update she just asked me if I was free this week to get drinks with her

[olichan12]

>Those are both good points, I’ll have to really do some thinkin. But I know for sure I’m gonna fuck her again because every time we do it’s like fireworks
That's gonna fuck with your heart in the end. If you want to do it, ok, but you're messing with your own heart.

I do recommend filming it. Because you're always going to want to know that you fucked her in her prime when you're angrily getting over her. Might not want to tell her you're filming it, though. Maybe get her to send nudes as well. Girls knowing that we have shit on them always bugs them no matter what.

[tiktokjac lop]

LOL I actually already have her nudes saved. But naw I’m pretty good about not getting too attached. I’ve been thinking about it as well and don’t think it’s a good idea to pursue a relationship. But I’m definitely going to fuck the shit out her. Gonna try to slide in her tight little asshole this time too hahaha

[olichan12]

LOL I actually already have her nudes saved. But naw I’m pretty good about not getting too attached. I’ve been thinking about it as well and don’t think it’s a good idea to pursue a relationship. But I’m definitely going to fuck the shit out her. Gonna try to slide in her tight little asshole this time too hahaha
Well, you're gonna have to let go of her at some point. I get wanting to fuck because she's fun.
But if you are going to try for her ass, don't do painal. Tease her in such a way that she'll want anal. Remember that you'll want all this stuff filmed so that when she finally can't have you, you can say you have her forever, so to speak.

Avoid any talk of relationship or commitment from this girl. Flirt if you want, but avoid relationship and commitment like the plague. When you find a better girl, you've always been single, even if you've been fucking this old flame for a while.

But dammit, look for a better partner. You're not taken, so make an effort. This girl, while a lay for now, is stil vomit, and you don't want to go back to that shit.

[Omega Samurai]

Not really anything to add since everyone has said it way better than I could. But there's some solid advice here.