[pepinoo2]

I have PE only when having sex. I can masturbate alone (or with help if u know what i mean) for at least 10 minutes (I always masturbate at least 10 minutes to help my PE) with lube. But just sticking my penis or thinking about it makes me anxious because I know I'm not going to last long, I'm too excited and i always cum in like a minute. I dont want to keep living like this, last time i had sex i almost cried of embarrasment. I dont wanna have sex now because of this. Any tips to help ?

[jm431451]

I have PE only when having sex. I can masturbate alone (or with help if u know what i mean) for at least 10 minutes (I always masturbate at least 10 minutes to help my PE) with lube. But just sticking my penis or thinking about it makes me anxious because I know I'm not going to last long, I'm too excited and i always cum in like a minute. I dont want to keep living like this, last time i had sex i almost cried of embarrasment. I dont wanna have sex now because of this. Any tips to help ?

Dude first thing you gotta realise is PE is not a problem at all. Imagine not being able to cum at all... thats a real problem.

As for PE man, just relax. You're making yourself anxious for no reason.

Girls don't care how quickly you cum dude, trust me on that one.

If you cum quickly, do what every other guy does (use your hands or mouth until you get hard again and then give her round 2).

No girl is gonna take the piss out of your quick round 1 as long as you give them a great round 2,3,4 etc. Also remember the more you have sex, the longer you'll start to last. If it's been a while, you're bound to cum quickly. I fuck like a rabbit and even I cum quickly sometimes when I haven't had sex in a while. It's natural dude.

Also you need to work on your "don't think about it" game. One of the reasons you're cumming quickly is cos you're enjoying the pussy too much in the moment. Try thinking about other things when you're fucking that are turn offs so you don't last as long. Works for me.

If you want any more advice let me know but trust me dude you should not be embarrassed about this, it happens to everyone.

[MaxxMann22]

I have PE only when having sex. I can masturbate alone (or with help if u know what i mean) for at least 10 minutes (I always masturbate at least 10 minutes to help my PE) with lube. But just sticking my penis or thinking about it makes me anxious because I know I'm not going to last long, I'm too excited and i always cum in like a minute. I dont want to keep living like this, last time i had sex i almost cried of embarrasment. I dont wanna have sex now because of this. Any tips to help ?

JM's Advice copied below is spot on.  You are really ready for a lot of fun here, and you have likely earned it.  So, enjoy your well-deserved reward.   Here are few adds to JM's good advice based on more than a few years and going through the whole cycle:

Dude first thing you gotta realise is PE is not a problem at all. Imagine not being able to cum at all... thats a real problem.


Girls don't care how quickly you cum dude, trust me on that one.

Yes, this is something guys got to know.  Guys also worry about whether their dick is the right size, their chest is manly enough, or they have mastered some porn video technique.  (Well, Do work on your techniques at all times; a lot of guys do need help here.)  Remember that she is too worried about you liking her tits (which she will think are too small or sag too much or whatever) and whether she is too fat (don't remind her that her tits are made of fat).  

Have her start with a BJ or a hand job and enjoy it.  Tell her how the hardness of your dick and the quick spew is a reflection of how awesome she is and how great she is for giving you the thrill.  Make sure she knows that  there is more to cum and take advantage of your reloading period to work through some foreplay.  After shot one, you may be "down" and more interested in the basketball score, but work through that and focus and good foreplay.  Her ups and downs are different than your's.  Tenderly clean off your jizz, reminds her with words and tender touch of why you came and (with a big smile) that you want more.  You may be "up and down" over time, but she should be "going up" all the time if you are consistent, slow and tender with on-going foreplay.

If you cum quickly, do what every other guy does (use your hands or mouth until you get hard again and then give her round 2).

Yes, and as the above comment indicates, you want to manage your "re-up" process such that she is getting hotter all the time.  And remember what JM says next!  You are young and thus you are good for multiply rounds.  As I said, you and your dick will go up and down over the session, but she does not work that way.  Keep her on a steady rise to her orgasm.  It takes some focus when you have just spent your wad, but, my friend, what a subject to focus on.

No girl is gonna take the piss out of your quick round 1 as long as you give them a great round 2,3,4 etc. Also remember the more you have sex, the longer you'll start to last. If it's been a while, you're bound to cum quickly. I fuck like a rabbit and even I cum quickly sometimes when I haven't had sex in a while. It's natural dude.

Also you need to work on your "don't think about it" game. One of the reasons you're cumming quickly is cos you're enjoying the pussy too much in the moment. Try thinking about other things when you're fucking that are turn offs so you don't last as long. Works for me.

If you want any more advice let me know but trust me dude you should not be embarrassed about this, it happens to everyone.

Thank goodness it does.  It shows your dick is working like it should.  So, relax.

[Streuselkuchen]

A long term help could be to start doing exercise in the gym and get moving in general.
Since I started training my endurance increased a lot and with that my self-esteem!

Good luck bro!

[johnlol555]

Trim the fat, do a check at your doctor's to see if your heart can work through fitness training. If not, start with power walking dude