I've watched it together with the SO a few times, but I find it kinda awkward tbh and don't really do it anymore together. Its like neither of us want to pick too crazy of a video, and I feel like it makes her self conscious because she may not be able to do the things as well as a professional (ie deep deepthroating, deep anal). Also, I usually don't watch porn unless she's not around when I'm horny and I can't wait any longer lol.