24-09-2021, 10:23 AM
My girlfriend recently been telling me we need to spice up our sex life. How do yo7 guys recommend about going with this?
Spice up sex
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24-09-2021, 05:25 PM
You gotta get her to tell you what she likes and what she doesn't. Lemme ask you: how many minutes do you last? Does she actually reciprocate when you do stuff, or does she just lay there? How much time does she spend on social media and texting compared with how much time it's just the two of you?
24-09-2021, 07:13 PM
Yeah just to echo what others have said. It sounds like she might have stuff in mind, hence her bringing it up. I would recommend that you tell her you're interested to "LISTEN" to what she wants, but I want to stress that just because she is interested in "DOES NOT" mean you have to do it.
But yeah communication is key and a lot of people have kinks, but you cant really comfortably explore said kinks wihtout a strong foundation of communication.
Some places to start, is watch some porn together, maybe youll see something you guys like or want to try.
Can I ask what kind of sex you have now? Like is it agressive or pretty vanilla
But yeah communication is key and a lot of people have kinks, but you cant really comfortably explore said kinks wihtout a strong foundation of communication.
Some places to start, is watch some porn together, maybe youll see something you guys like or want to try.
Can I ask what kind of sex you have now? Like is it agressive or pretty vanilla
24-09-2021, 08:39 PM
My wife and I have lots of toys and are always a good thing to have in the nightstand. But first talk to your girl to see what kind of stuff she want... She maybe just want a little finger vibrator and you bring home an horse dildo can get you in trouble 
For me the best first things (cheap and effective) are a vibrating cock ring, bullet vibrators, lube and maybe a butt plug. Simple lingerie as thongs and stocking are also good things to spice up.
For a next step, improve the lingerie with corsets, garter belt and bras for her, some see though or funny undies for you. Cosplay is also an option. For couple toys, an air pulse toy like the satisfyer or womanizer mean orgasms in 2 minutes or less (my wife can confirm that with her satisfyer), and a couple vibrator like the Partner Whale.
If both want to go further in kink, restrainers, blindfolds, spanking paddle are also great options. And if you like butt stuff, a pegging dildo or prostate plugs are great.
For me the best first things (cheap and effective) are a vibrating cock ring, bullet vibrators, lube and maybe a butt plug. Simple lingerie as thongs and stocking are also good things to spice up.
For a next step, improve the lingerie with corsets, garter belt and bras for her, some see though or funny undies for you. Cosplay is also an option. For couple toys, an air pulse toy like the satisfyer or womanizer mean orgasms in 2 minutes or less (my wife can confirm that with her satisfyer), and a couple vibrator like the Partner Whale.
If both want to go further in kink, restrainers, blindfolds, spanking paddle are also great options. And if you like butt stuff, a pegging dildo or prostate plugs are great.
24-09-2021, 11:52 PM
Ask if she's thinking about anything specific, if she isn't though I still have some tips for you.
Include toys into the bedroom. I would advice getting her a satisfyer pro if she doesn't already have one (the amount of bj's I'm getting went through the roof after I got that one for her)
Maybe do a little sex game like dices or something else that's playful
Use handcuffs and/or a blindfold
Have sex in different places besides the bedroom
Hope this helps!
Include toys into the bedroom. I would advice getting her a satisfyer pro if she doesn't already have one (the amount of bj's I'm getting went through the roof after I got that one for her)
Maybe do a little sex game like dices or something else that's playful
Use handcuffs and/or a blindfold
Have sex in different places besides the bedroom
Hope this helps!