I am by no means a pussy slayer but here is my experience,
I was on a lads holiday and I was rather drunk myself and saw some girls on the dance floor. I walked up to the less attractive of the 2 and started dancing, kissed her and flat out told her I wanted to fuck her. (I was a massive dick, I know) she kept saying we could go back to her hotel and cuddle but I said. If we go back we are fucking and that is it. Tomorrow you will be nothing to me. She again said we could go back but just cuddling. It was obvious she was down to fuck but didn’t want to come across a slut.
At the hotel,
We got to her room, made out, I took her top off, we carried on kissing and she started wanking me off a bit, it was very clear she hadn’t done it before. I took her tights and underwear off and started playing with her a bit and fingering her then I flipped her over. I spread her cheeks and she had shit on her ass, anyway I decided I was done and put my clothes back on. By the time I was dressed she was out cold, fast asleep.
It wasn’t a good experience and I’m glad I stopped when I did.
I’m not sure if she really wanted to have sex and I feel bad for how I spoke to her, (I spoke to her like that cos I’d had a recent breakup and didn’t really give a shit) even tho it seemed to work somehow.
From my experience above, I think it’s wrong and you should wait for the person to be sober, hook up are nearly always shit.
Surfturf