I was talking about this with some of my friends those days
and the game that we chose was Dark Souls
I would complete wiped out this game and try again as the first time of my life
The first souls game I played was Demon's Souls, and i just LOVED IT SO MUCH!
I took 1 month to complete this game
After that i played dark souls, and THAT GAME TAKE ME LIKE 5 MONTH TO COMPLETE!!!!
after the first playthrough, and some videos, the game get easie
even if i played now, i will remember parts and things to do
it won't bring me the sensation of fear in losing souls on my death.