24-03-2021, 02:31 PM
Ok so my room mate came back from his girls house and he had a face like someone slapped him with a wet fish. he has helped me with some stuff with my ex, so me thinking he had been dumped, grabbed us a beer and sat him down to talk it out.
Turns out he hadnt been dumped but they just had the previous partners talk. His number a modest but reasonable 13. Her number was 57. nothing wrong with having a healthy sex life as long as its safe. i asked him if that was the problem and he said he didnt think he could handle it, by the math of it he couldnt be the biggest she had been with ect so he started questioning if he was going to be right for her. i explained that if he likes her the number shouldnt matter and if she likes him then the number wont increase so leave whats in the past in the past.
Have you ever been shocked by a partners number? what would you do if it was tripple yours?
Turns out he hadnt been dumped but they just had the previous partners talk. His number a modest but reasonable 13. Her number was 57. nothing wrong with having a healthy sex life as long as its safe. i asked him if that was the problem and he said he didnt think he could handle it, by the math of it he couldnt be the biggest she had been with ect so he started questioning if he was going to be right for her. i explained that if he likes her the number shouldnt matter and if she likes him then the number wont increase so leave whats in the past in the past.
Have you ever been shocked by a partners number? what would you do if it was tripple yours?